tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1319505753948309550.comments2023-11-03T06:14:48.921-04:00Through My Muslim EyesYasmin (Umm Zayd)http://www.blogger.com/profile/12025820364516679321noreply@blogger.comBlogger619125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1319505753948309550.post-7147556645893044442019-03-28T14:29:22.926-04:002019-03-28T14:29:22.926-04:00Language is the building block of any community or...Language is the building block of any community or society, cultures as well as generations. Grammar for any language plays an important part in how well one knows the language well.<br /><br />Arabic is an important language to read Quran<br />Here:<a href="https://www.eijazah.com/learn-arabic-online/" rel="nofollow">learn quran</a>Quran with Tajweedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01231894832177213933noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1319505753948309550.post-12493452947354411382017-08-13T01:05:10.235-04:002017-08-13T01:05:10.235-04:00I can't believe I am reading this 9 years late...I can't believe I am reading this 9 years later lol. I am catholic American married to a Muslim Arab man. I do my best. I know since I have been ill alot and we are only in a full size bed atm that it can be intrusive a bit upon one another while trying to sleep at night. During the womans menstration he cannot sleep in bed with his wife. And since I ahve been seriously ill he has been nice enough to sleep on the couch. Its a normal thing. Many old fashioned couples slept in seperate beds and it was out of comfort and respect. Do not read so much into it. Know that your husband loves you and is tryinf to do right by you and AllahLuvhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13431412036689762476noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1319505753948309550.post-16071285628674136172017-01-31T21:49:49.849-05:002017-01-31T21:49:49.849-05:00Nice
been going through the same thing
wonder if ...Nice <br />been going through the same thing<br />wonder if you still use this blog :)albanian dawah muslimahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18362105509263886896noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1319505753948309550.post-37001847333341527822015-10-21T09:20:27.241-04:002015-10-21T09:20:27.241-04:00Assalamu Alikum . I want to add this video to this...Assalamu Alikum . I want to add this video to this blog!<br />Its a very inspiring video on TAUBAH REPENTANCE<br />http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t0UQdkYuWwUsaedhttp://www.youtube.com/user/ncapcsnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1319505753948309550.post-16548727051951820542015-06-22T15:29:33.765-04:002015-06-22T15:29:33.765-04:00Khula u can do one month but save side u can do it...Khula u can do one month but save side u can do it 3month as Allah pak wrote on chwpter 2 surha Baquara verse. 2.228. Its has to be three month..Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1319505753948309550.post-16229013375048882952015-05-29T07:08:17.451-04:002015-05-29T07:08:17.451-04:00I jus had my khulla done i hav been seperated from...I jus had my khulla done i hav been seperated from my husband for a year do i hav to do 3 months or 1 month iddat as i want to marry some one else i do not want to liv in sinAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1319505753948309550.post-9084679166755636702015-02-18T18:00:28.510-05:002015-02-18T18:00:28.510-05:00As Salamu alaikum, shabs, i know this is old, but ...As Salamu alaikum, shabs, i know this is old, but i just want to clarify for the sake of anyone else reading it now as i did.<br />your iddah would have been 3 menstruations,,,not one. it is the method of divorce that will dictate what time length/type of iddah you are following NOT how long ago you and him separated. <br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1319505753948309550.post-71018233550001365962014-11-15T14:20:55.473-05:002014-11-15T14:20:55.473-05:00Any advice for me?Any advice for me?Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07879297607080704716noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1319505753948309550.post-82644747423989493312014-11-15T14:14:07.364-05:002014-11-15T14:14:07.364-05:00Asalam alaykum all. I have been married for almost...Asalam alaykum all. I have been married for almost two years now, and we have 10 months old baby. I have the same problem that once my sis Yasmin had. <br />My husband started talking about sleeping in different bedrooms. And I got so upset about it. He is usually not home at nights. he comes late most of the nights either at work or with his buddies. <br />I love him and I can't imagine my life other than with him, but I feel we haven't reached the level where we are emotionally bonded or connected. He feels that everything is okay and we don't need to work on anything. He loves me and all , but we have different ways of showing and recieving.<br /><br />If I let him sleep separate I am afraid I'm ganna lose the little connection that I have and feel when he is sleeping next to me. it's comforting to see him sleeping on the same bed with me even though I keep my distance when he fells asleep. He doesn't like to be touched. I got used to it and I'm okay with that. <br />We are moving at the end of this month and he is talking about me sharing the room with our baby and him sleeping on the other room. I don't know what to do. I don't want force him to sleep the same bed with me at the same time I don't want to wake up in the morning and not see him next to me. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07879297607080704716noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1319505753948309550.post-12464532125417608852014-11-15T14:06:24.685-05:002014-11-15T14:06:24.685-05:00This comment has been removed by the author.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07879297607080704716noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1319505753948309550.post-25138406848717302462014-11-15T06:03:08.092-05:002014-11-15T06:03:08.092-05:00I wrote a lonh note and it didn't post I lost ...I wrote a lonh note and it didn't post I lost them allAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07879297607080704716noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1319505753948309550.post-207083926388233252014-03-19T14:20:37.190-04:002014-03-19T14:20:37.190-04:00Thank you for quick reply. That has helped. Thank you for quick reply. That has helped. Shabshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10244674311596440380noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1319505753948309550.post-29649983819152563222014-03-19T12:35:53.281-04:002014-03-19T12:35:53.281-04:00It will really depend. If you haven't been tog...It will really depend. If you haven't been together for a year, a one month ocean should suffice but if you want to be on the safe side, the. You can do 3 months. In my opinion, a one month ocean woould probably be easier on you, given the circumstances.And Allah (SWT) knows best. I hope it helpsYasmin (Umm Zayd)https://www.blogger.com/profile/12025820364516679321noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1319505753948309550.post-87035692176589916682014-03-19T12:07:41.282-04:002014-03-19T12:07:41.282-04:00I have been separated from my husband for 12 month...I have been separated from my husband for 12 months now. I was applying for khula but he agreed that he will give me talaq to speed up the process. He has now 12 months later given me talaq. Can you advise am I still obliged to do 3 months iddat or can I do one month as we have not been together for a year now?Shabshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10244674311596440380noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1319505753948309550.post-48654060752283198142013-08-08T09:19:53.731-04:002013-08-08T09:19:53.731-04:00very good articles! how pity dont you write anymor...very good articles! how pity dont you write anymore! God Blessing!Sr.Masishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03015357347462413671noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1319505753948309550.post-10512614699637420182012-03-09T01:11:02.733-05:002012-03-09T01:11:02.733-05:00A.a.
I reverted to Islam nine years ago and starte...A.a.<br />I reverted to Islam nine years ago and started wearing hijab today after telling my folks (who are strict Christians by the way) that this is who I am. :)<br />I'd like to get that book, don't know if its sold in Kenya but will look for it. <br />Love your blog, recommending it to friends.<br />Jazakallah khayr.Rock Paper Scissorshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14368179804874477910noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1319505753948309550.post-88286027785973829012012-03-07T21:27:17.492-05:002012-03-07T21:27:17.492-05:00Asalamu Alaikum
I just stumbled upon your blog, a...Asalamu Alaikum<br /><br />I just stumbled upon your blog, and was very happy to see my work! <br /><br />I also see above someone suggesting you use rani cone... absolutely DO NOT use it. Its full of harmful chemicals. If you want to do henna, mix your own or buy fresh cones from someone you trust. Never use premixed stuff in a tube. <br /><br />I am actually working with/for Heather from Henna By Heather right now as a web person for her supply store. www.artisticadornment.com I've got 2 more solo books there and 3 joint efforts with Heather. :) <br /><br />Again, I'm so happy you like my work, and may Allah reward you.<br /><br />Jamilah<br />www.jamilahhennacreations.comJamilahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16620206144107871079noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1319505753948309550.post-5295497582657769942012-01-29T03:59:47.482-05:002012-01-29T03:59:47.482-05:00Sister *aisha*, pls do you have or can refer me to...Sister *aisha*, pls do you have or can refer me to a daleel that states using a IUD is haram?menahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06154037014776842624noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1319505753948309550.post-82119143300827480322011-08-10T01:54:38.724-04:002011-08-10T01:54:38.724-04:00Thank You for your brief review. I just found abou...Thank You for your brief review. I just found about it in this lecture. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ii4Hyofod8sabunoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1319505753948309550.post-47612741410517203382011-07-29T02:36:24.637-04:002011-07-29T02:36:24.637-04:00actually,i'm going through the same situation ...actually,i'm going through the same situation now which is im not pretty sure wether i gotta wait 1month or 3months after my divorce has been carried out.well,the divorce i'm in now is talaq,but i have no more physical contact with him for quiet awhile already and i dont have any boyfriend as well...so,im sure im not pregnant after my divorce...well,im just curious as to which Iddah i should follow...fyi im a moslem convert...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1319505753948309550.post-32386684682999405432011-06-04T14:13:44.473-04:002011-06-04T14:13:44.473-04:00Asalamalaikum darling. I completely understand whe...Asalamalaikum darling. I completely understand where ur coming from on the family issue. I live with my inlaws, who are helpful but a bit verbally violent or aggressive with one another. And my son was such a calm and collected baby but now that hes a year old hes throwing temper tantrums. I know hes young and doesnt know any better but somehow it makes you wonder if the adults are the ones responsible for this bad behavior, and if so what can we do to resolve it? I get scared that my inlaws might get upset and take it the wrong way if i bring it up.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1319505753948309550.post-49570723057239886972011-06-01T22:17:34.465-04:002011-06-01T22:17:34.465-04:00Pretty henna designs!!!Pretty henna designs!!!Naeemahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01096406682347732540noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1319505753948309550.post-79910189135994973382011-05-11T17:18:25.081-04:002011-05-11T17:18:25.081-04:00AssalaamuAlaikum
I know this is an older post of ...AssalaamuAlaikum<br /><br />I know this is an older post of yours and I'm not entirely sure how I ended up here but I'm glad to have found your blog. <br /><br />I just wanted to clear up a slight misconception you and a fellow reader have regarding Plan B. Plan B or any other emergency contraceptive pill is NOT an abortion pill. If a woman decides to take it and her egg has already been fertilized, it will not affect the fertilized egg, meaning the pregnancy. ECP induces a woman's period but if there is a fertilized egg it won't. Same thing with hormonal pill birth control. It is possible to get pregnant while on the pill (happened to my sister-in-law) and if you continue to take the pill and not realize you are pregnant immeadiately, it won't affect the fertilized egg, nor cause you to miscarry. From what I remember from my biology classes, when you ovulate and the egg is released from the ovum it sticks to the uterus wall lining, it does not need to be fertilized to be there. ECP causes the lining to shed as long as there are no fertilized eggs there. I know I sound like I'm repeating a bit but I want to cover all of the bases. As for why would someone who's married need ECP? Quite honestly it's not for anyone to judge except for Allah SWT. There are different circumstances and if none of them have ever happened to you then just be thankful you've never had to consider them. <br /><br />Also are you thinking of using female birth control as your only source of protection? What about condoms? They don't involve any hormones that would affect your body if you're worried about that. Plus, when it's time for a child to be made, all the condoms and pills can't stop Allah's will. :O) And also Allah knows and understands your intentions, so do whatever it is you do with a pure heart. If it's because you're worried about your soon to be spouse (and for good reason) than I think it is understandable. <br /><br />Regarding the pill, I took the low dosage TryCyclen Lo pill because they mimic the body's own hormone production and it has the least amount of side effects and I haven't felt anything since I stopped taking them. For the pills, it's best to accompany them with an activity, breakfast or lunch, something like that. I am very thirsty first thing in the morning and as soon as I hit the alarm I drink water. That's when I used to take mine. Plus, with the pills, even if you forget, it won't affect you if you take it within 8 hrs of your regular time, like 9 am is your regular time and you remember it at 4 pm, no worries, you'll be fine, just take them. <br /><br />Good luck with everything.fatimanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1319505753948309550.post-48835187314008582522011-04-01T17:00:11.840-04:002011-04-01T17:00:11.840-04:00oh im so glad you agree! its so scary the informat...oh im so glad you agree! its so scary the information out there is really unreliable and a lot of sisters are confused by all these different treatments..i am in the same position as you atm, i had a c-section and really want to wait at least another 18 months b4 having another child as i feel my body is still recovering...well the patch is a nightmare! i have stopped it as within one week of using it i gained 2 pounds, felt nauseous, and had circulation problems in my legs. and yes i found out they contain 60% more hormone than the pill and apparently 40 women have died from it so nope def not using that again! i am going to try the normal pill for now, but the only other alternative i can see is the implant in your arm, or possibly the vaginal ring, as you can remove that and it doesnt interfere with your hormones :) ill tell you if i find anything better as i am on a quest atm lol!The Belle Vidahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14431935547319310754noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1319505753948309550.post-13900066281728658972011-03-29T04:56:46.375-04:002011-03-29T04:56:46.375-04:00I'll probably spend some time to settle things...I'll probably spend some time to settle things related to my dunia... my family, posession and all.. then be in khalwah (commmunion?) with Allah.. asking His forgiveness and Rahmah..Wan Sharifhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11152673329947468935noreply@blogger.com